Leadership and Humility

Humility and Leadership rarely are associated together but a leader must learn to be humble

Humility and Leadership rarely are associated together but a leader must learn to be humble

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When you do a word association with humility, leadership probably does not pop into your head. A leader should be great, glorious, and confident right? If their confidence leads them to be prideful well then so be it.  It’s probably OK for someone to be a little prideful if they have earned the right to be prideful.   Well not according to Jesus and many others in recent history who have studied truly great leaders.

Take a look at the example Jesus left for us at the last supper. On the night before he was crucified, Jesus did something extraordinary; He got up, got a towel and water, and began to wash the feet of each of His followers. In that time only a servant, and the humblest of servants at that, washed people’s feet. Yet Jesus did this to show us what a leader should really look like. He showed us that a leader needs to be thinking and serving those who follow them. They need to put their follower’s needs ahead of their own. A leader has incredible responsibility, and one of them is to make sure that the needs of those entrusted to him or her are taken care of.

When a leader is humble and takes time to look after the needs of those following them, then the followers will be more willing and able to follow and do whatever needs to be done to accomplish the goal at hand.

Especially today, humility is not a popular trait.  Somehow William Bennet left it out of his best seller The Book of Virtues.  Maybe there were not enough stories of a humble protagonist, or maybe humility does not sell.  :-)   If a leader does not continue to pursue humility it is likely they will soon become prideful and fall into traps caused by the sin of pride.  A humble leader accepts the council of others and grows from it.

I once heard the phrase that humility is not thinking less of yourself it is not thinking of yourself at all.  President’s Lincoln and Reagan both modeled this characteristic of humility well.  Nancy Reagan said of President Reagan that he had no ego.  He was not concerned about himself.  Though many great leaders are attributed with the quote “You can get a lot done if you don’t care who gets the credit.”  It was certainly an opinion that Reagan voiced often and probably helped to keep him humble as he made his way up the ladder of success.

If you want to pursue humility it helps to keep your focus on Christ who was humble despite being God.  It helps to give away all the credit you can.  It also helps to receive encouragement and praise with a simple “Thank You.” or “Praise God.”  A false humility that says, “Oh it was nothing.”  Simply causes the giver of the praise to have to offer more or justify their original statement, whereas a thank you or focus on God causes the attention to go back to that person or to God.

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How to Discover Your Life Purpose in 60 seconds

I have read a bunch of Destiny Discovery, Life Purpose Discovery, and God’s Will for your life Discovery books over the years and they seem to talk about a lot of things that are really good to focus on and think about, for instance:

  • Passions and Interests that motivate or infuriate you.
  • Areas that you have found success in life in the past.
  • The whole strengths movement furthered by Don Clifton and Marcus Buckingham and its emphasis on focusing on things that strengthen you.
  • Spiritual Gifts
  • Specific Callings or Destiny Moments that God has used in your life
  • Your History and family history and current circumstances
  • Using God’s general revealed will to help you make decisions
  • Optimal Conditions for your life and environment
  • Things in your life that have a yearning quality to them

I just planned a whole retreat for my students that was called Discover Your Destiny and we worked with students on figuring out what their purpose in life is and what God created them for. All of these things are great and can help us figure out the specific purpose and cause that God has created us for. The good works that God has prepared in advance for us to do according to Ephesians 2:10.

Sometimes though, it can be a little overwhelming. Have you ever felt like there was just too much to think about when it comes to discovering your destiny or life purpose? You start to wade through all these different categories and you come out the back side almost as confused as you went in, maybe even more so.

If that is the case for you, you might want to just try this simple little exercise that can cut through all the clutter for you and help you figure out why you are walking planet Earth.

Complete the phrase:

My life purpose is to Glorify God by _____________ ING ____________ WHO/WHAT

(i.e. Fixing Cars, Leading Worship, Strengthening Leaders, Raising Godly Children,) You get the idea. You might want to wordsmith it a little when you are done so that it speaks to your soul more deeply or even add some clarifying remarks to bring it to and even greater focal point. We know that God has us on this earth to bring him glory but sometimes figure out the specific way that he wants us to do that is a little tricky. I

For many of you this question will help cut through the clutter in your brain and help you to figure out exactly what you are about. Hope it helps you in the process.

I learned this phrase from my friend Stephen Blandino years ago and it has stuck with me ever since. When I fulfill the Destiny that God has for me it will be bring God the most glory, most significantly advance the Kingdom of God and leave me the most fulfilled.